Ukufuya izilwane ezifuywayo kuyinqubo eyinkimbinkimbi edinga ukuzilungiselela kokuqala, kufaka phakathi isifundo sezisekelo zemibhalo. Ngakho-ke, onogwaja abesilisa nabesifazane kufanele benziwe endaweni ethile futhi balandele imithetho ekhethekile. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi ufinyelele kumanyolo okokuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ulwazi ngemininingwane ethile ebalulekile kusiza ukuthola inzalo enempilo ngesikhathi.
Ngabe izilwane sezikulungele nini ukukhula?
Imvamisa, onogwaja bangaqala ukuzala beneminyaka engu-6 ubudala. Kuleli qophelo, ukwakheka komzimba wesifazane kuyaphela. Emadodeni, imisebenzi yocansi yenzeka eneminyaka eyi-7 izinyanga. Icala lokufuya okukhulu lingenziwa ngaphambili. Kodwa-ke, akukhuthazwa ukuthi uqale wenze lokhu ngaphambi kokuba izilwane zibe nezinyanga ezi-5. Ukukhasa kweCalifornia kubhekwa njengokuzalela okunamakhambi, kepha ngisho nabamele bayo izinyanga ezi-4 abakakulungeli ukuzalaniswa.
Ukuthola inzalo eqinile futhi enempilo kungenzeka kuphela ukuthi abazali bayo bangunogwaja abakhulu nabondlekile.
Lapho izilwane sezifinyelele ebudaleni, kukhethwa abamele abahamba phambili epulazini.
Icala lonogwaja lenziwa ngokushesha lapho unogwaja eba nesikhathi sokuya ocansini, okunqunywa yizimpawu ezilandelayo:
- ukuchama njalo;
- ukungaziphathi ngokuziphatha, ukuhamba okukhulu;
- umbala obomvu ogcwele ukhiye wezocansi.
Ukuze inqubo yokungenela iphumelele, kufanele ihambisane nesikhathi sokuvulwa kwesibeletho kunogwaja, nakho okuvela ngesikhathi sokuzingela ngokocansi.
Icala lingenziwa izinsuku ezingama-4-6 nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yalokho, ukushushumbisa kungatholakala.
Amarabi ahlangana kanjani?
Lapho kukhethwa abantu abathile ngokuzalanisa, ungaqhubeka ngoku mating. Kwenziwa endaweni ejwayelekile kowesilisa, ngakho-ke owesimame uhlala emgodini wakhe. Ehlobo, le nqubo kufanele yenzeke ekuseni kakhulu, futhi ngenkathi ebandayo - nganoma yisiphi isikhathi phakathi nosuku kuze kube amahora ayi-16, ngenkathi kukhanya. Ikheji kufanele libe mahhala, abaphuzayo nabondli kufanele basuswe kulo.
Inqubo yokuphelisa onogwaja iyaqedwa lapho owesilisa ewela ngasohlangothini lwayo, enza umsindo odubulayo, emva kwalokho owesifazana ungaphinde ubonakale. Uma kwenzeka wehluleka, ngemuva kwamahora ambalwa, ukuqandanisa kuyaqhutshwa futhi. Uma lo mzamo ungaphumeleli, insikazi ihlala komunye wesilisa. Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingama-5-6, ukukhula komzimba kuyadingeka. Uma insikazi, ukuba ngowesilisa, ingamvumeli ukuba asondele, khona-ke umanyolo.
Ungakuthola kanjani ukukhulelwa konogwaja?
Ezinsukwini eziyi-12 ngemuva kokuphola, ukusebenza kwayo kuyahlolwa. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuzwa isisu sowesifazane endaweni ye-pelvic, usihlalise endaweni ephansi futhi uyibambe lapho ibuna. Uma unogwaja evundisiwe, emuva kwesisu sakhe kuzoqina. Esibelethweni esivele sakhula ngemuva kokuzalela, kusafunwa onogwaja abancane. Anqume ukuba khona kwawo futhi avumele ukuzwakala kwesisu.
Ukuthi ukhulelwe emalungeni kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani, kuvame ngokuya ngenani lomvundla kulitha. The more wabo, isikhathi esincane. Uma onogwaja abancanyana kulitha, ukukhulelwa kuzohlala isikhathi eside. Njengomthetho, ihlala cishe inyanga.
Ukwazi ukuthi unogwaja okhulelwe uhamba malini, kulula ukuhlela ukuzilandela okulandelayo. Ngokwe-theory, insikazi iyakwazi ukuletha onogwaja cishe izikhathi eziyi-10 ngonyaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwilitha ngalinye inani labo lingafinyelela ku-10. Ukuze insikazi ikwazi ukondla amazinyane ayo, imvamisa kuphela ingxenye yomvundla eshiywe kudoti.
Kungenzeka nini ukwenzeka kunogwaja ngemuva kwesigaxa?
Umzimba wonogwaja ulungele ngokomzimba ukuvundiswa okusha ngosuku lokuzalwa kwezinja. Kodwa-ke, kudingeka anikeze isikhathi sokululama, ngakho-ke ngokuvamile kuvama ukwenziwa ngemuva kwenyanga. Ngalesi sikhathi, onogwaja sebelunyuliwe kunina, futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, onogwaja baphinde baganwe. Uma ukhetha izinsana kunina ngaphambili, zizokhula zibe zimbi kakhulu futhi zibe nesisindo kancane. Ungaqala ukuzala lapho insikazi ikhombisa izimpawu zokuzingela ezocansi.
Kukhona futhi inqubo yezindlela ezihlanganisiwe. Kusendaweni yokuthi insikazi imbozwe futhi izinsuku ezimbili ngemuva kokuzalwa. Ngesikhathi sokudla kokudoti wokuqala, umbungu wesibili uyakhula. Onogwaja balunyulwa ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingama-28 bezelwe. Maduze nje, unogwaja uba nenzalo entsha. Kodwa-ke, ukusetshenziswa kwendlela enjalo kuwuthinta kabi umzimba wesilwane, awunaso isikhathi sokululama. Ngakho-ke, ukusetshenziswa kwe-okrol ehlanganisiwe kungenzeka isikhathi esifushane, ngokuvamile ehlobo. Uma ubuyela kulo unyaka wonke, isilwane asikwazi ukusimisa sife. Ehlobo, i-okrol ehlanganisiwe kulula ukuyifeza ngenxa yokuthi inani elikhulu lokudla okushibhile nelijusi liyatholakala.
Kukhona nenguqulo eyenziwe lula yale ndlela. Kubandakanya ukuvundiswa emavikini ama-2 ngemuva kokuzalwa konogwaja, abese atshalwa eneminyaka engama-35. Lolu hlobo lwe-okrol lubizwa ngokuthi yi-semi-densified. Ngemuva kokufaka onogwaja, kuyadingeka ukuthi uhlanze ikheji, lapho unogwaja uzokwenza khona isidleke wenzalo entsha. Kusetshenziswa ubuchwepheshe obunamakhompiyutha, kunzima ukuthola inzalo esezingeni eliphakeme ukuze izalwe kabusha. Le ndlela ivumela kuphela ukuphawuleka futhi ngesikhathi esifushane ukwandisa inani labantu.
Ngakho-ke, kweminye imindeni zivundisa ngasikhathi sinye imivundla emibili, enye yayo yokuzalanisa. Ngemuva kokuzalwa, onogwaja bayo banikezwa enye insikazi, ekukhohliseni kwayo kubhujiswe. Owesifazane ozalisayo angafakwa umanyolo futhi. Inzalo yakhe iyabe isilungele ukuzalaniswa okuthe xaxa.
Ukwenza lula inqubo yokululama ngemuva kokukhulelwa nokunakekelwa kwabangabahlengikazi, abalimi bashiya onogwaja, inani labo elingaphansi kwezingono zikanogwaja. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungayinquma kanjani ubulili bolo rabi. Kwabesifazane, ukuvulwa kocansi kufana negebe elingatholakali, kuyilapho emadodeni kufana ne-tube elongated. Kodwa-ke, uma behluleka ukucacisa ngokunembile ubulili bomvundla abasebancane, kunconyelwa ukukwenza futhi ngemuva kwezinyanga ezi-3. Ngalesi sikhathi, izitho zangasese zizohluka ngokusobala kwabesifazane nabesilisa.
